Reflections on White-ism

Reflections on White-ism

“I am sorry – I have a phobia of dogs. I was bitten by a dog as a young boy,” the estate agent explained why my timid corgi-cross had to be removed from the couch where she usually has her afternoon naps.
“I understand. That kind of experience sits deep,” I said. “I...
Behind every successful woman, there is ….

Behind every successful woman, there is ….

“All you need is love.” This is the same message the Beatles sang, religions preach and science has recently been promoting, under the term of ‘social support’ rather than love, of course. Emotional and practical support is beneficial along one’s life trajectory in a...
A Scooter Diary or Gender Hurts

A Scooter Diary or Gender Hurts

If you have ever wondered what it means when someone talks about gender being performed and produced, then look no further – I have the perfect example for you from my everyday life. I attended a one-day motorcycle training workshop for beginners in London, and my...
Loneliness

Loneliness

“Loneliness is the emotional pain of involuntary social isolation.” With these words, George Monbiot, a British writer and activist, opened his lecture at King’s Place in London. In the flyer for his talk, there was also the promise that he would not only delve into...
Which way? (Part 2)

Which way? (Part 2)

Travelling through life’s twists From ancient mythology and early religious traditions to modern psychology and popular culture, travelling has not only touched our imagination, but also provided the language for meditation on life. Similarly, my constant search for...